Slow-Motion Moment

Today we had some friends over for a playdate and to help me move some patio furniture and then get the kids out of the house, while Chad is in Nashville for March Madness.  We went to the park down the street from us.  4 kids all together and 2 moms.  We went to the park that I like better for Charlie.  Slides that aren’t ridiculously tall or need ladders to get to.

But he still fell… 5 feet to the ground.  It happened so quickly, but yet, so many things went through my head in that split-second.  He stepped off the side where there wasn’t a railing because there was a ladder-type thing to climb up.  And because his momentum was not going towards the opening, he fell kind of sideways and forwards, so he landed on his side (not on his head or awkwardly on his feet) And somehow he also managed not to hit anything (ladder-type toy with 4-5 METAL bar steps) and just landed on his side in the soft mulchy wood chips.  The moment I saw it happening, my instinct to go to him kicked in, but then something stopped me.  I’m not sure what it was. All the possibilities of what could go wrong, ran through my head, but yet so far we have had nothing wrong.  Best case scenario.  My mind and faith can’t keep from thinking there was someone watching over him that kept him falling in exactly the right way so he didn’t get clobbered on the way down or when he actually hit the ground. And maybe that someone also stopped me from getting in the way when I saw it happening.

He cried as soon as he hit the ground.  I ran to him, picked him up and held him and asked my friend Sara what I should do.  She knew to have him move his arms, to understand if his range of motion was affected.  He didn’t want to cooperate, because he was howling!  And once we (including Charlie) figured out he wasn’t hurt too bad and we decided to go home, he got even more upset, because he was not ready to go home!

On the way home, I decided to take him in to the doctor just to be extra careful.  It was a long wait, but luckily it was nap time so he was happy to sit in my lap and watch Thomas and Curious George on my phone while we waited.  (thank you Netflix)  And he checked out just fine.  Although I still need to check him every 4 hours tonight. Unfortunately it is 9:30 and I’m still trying to get him to go to sleep.  Darn 4 o’clock naps throw things off!  But it’s hard to be mad, with so much to be thankful for.  A lot of things could have gone wrong today and the worst part of my day was sitting at Urgent Care for 2+ hours with a healthy child!  Charlie got a lot of hugs and cuddles today.  He still might get more if he doesn’t fall asleep soon!

Maria went with my friend Sara and her girls. And is now spending the night at their house. Her first sleepover at a friend’s house.   She didn’t even notice he fell, which was frustrating at the time because she was so unfocused about why we were leaving and making a fuss about Charlie. But now I’m glad.  Her memory is a steel trap and she is constantly recounting our car accident in January to me, so just one more thing to keep her from “worrying” about.

Ride home from the park All the kids piled in one stroller on the walk home from the park. BTW – Look how BIG Charlie is. He barely fits in the front of our stroller!

Looking forward to having Chad and Maria home tomorrow.

(P.S. this was written on 3/18/12, but not posted until 3/19/12 since we are home by ourselves tonight.)

Welcome Spring!

Dear Spring,

We are so glad you are here. Please stay. Don’t leave us until Summer is here to take over.  Please please please!!

Love,

Maria & Charlie

Saturday
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Sibling Love
You can’t see Maria’s tears here, but she just fell off her bike, so Charlie is taking her back to the driveway to play with chalk.

Sunday
Heading out for a walk
Cool Kid on the Swings
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Snow!!

We didn’t get much, but we finally got a little snow and Charlie finally got to wear his snow pants! He loved it! All boy! He helped shovel the whole time Chad was shoveling! And cried when they were done, so then Chad pulled him around in the sled for a while, and he even got in a quick swing on the playset.
Daddy's Helper
Note: the wall behind him that I “took out” last week with our truck.

Outside fun with Daddy!

New Year’s Eve Day

As we are recovering.. yes again.  Maria from Strep & Charlie just from a nasty cold/cough, we spent the day and evening at home.

But it was in the mid-40s, so we did get outside for a little bit. Most of the toys are put away for winter, including the bikes, so we just got out the “little” bikes.  Even though both kids were a bit too big, they still enjoyed the time outside.   Rumor is that snow is on the way, so maybe we’ll be able to get out the sleds tomorrow!

 
Outside on New Year's Eve!
 
Outside on New Year's Eve!

Weekend

Saturday morning, we had swimming lessons. Our first lesson in several months. Maria was a bit apprehensive but warmed up quickly.  She just wanted to be on her tummy and swimming around!

After a mid-day nap, we headed out to Baby Loves Disco.  We met Sarah, Lilah, and Lilah’s cousin Lucy.  Maria again was a bit apprehensive at first, but warmed up. She danced a little, played a little, ate a little, talked a little, and got a tattoo of a school bus on her hand!

On Sunday, Maria’s cousins Jana and Luke came over (Aunt Kim & Uncle Chip too). We hadn’t seen them since early January. The kids had a blast! We even got some outside time in!

Today after work, Maria and I went outside for an hour after a quick snack. Maria had fun going in a circle (around the cul-de-sac). About the 3rd time around, she loudly observed (and pointed) “that’s Ron and Nancy’s house!”.  So we went, rang the doorbell, and said hello. Maria proudly showed them her boots. And when it was time to go back and walk around the circle again, she said “Nancy, too?”.  Unfortunately Nancy couldn’t come out with us, but asked Maria if she’d like to go to the park sometime this summer.  Maria of course, said yes!  After going back to the circle, I convinced Maria she could step in the puddles, and she decided that splashing was fun!

We are loving the spring weather!!!


A Moose and Leaves

Today we went to a fall party hosted by one of Chad’s co-workers. Maria wore her Halloween costume! My mom made this moose costume several years ago for my nephew.  We were nervous Maria wouldn’t want to wear it. She didn’t seem to like the hat at first, but when she has the whole outfit on, she doesn’t seem to mind one bit.  In fact, she said “oh – oh” when it would slide off. After we got home, she took a nap, but when she woke up we all went outside to tackle some leaves. Chad did most of the work, but Maria and I helped too!

Sunday Afternoon

We had a quiet Sunday. I spent much of it trying to get the kitchen clean. I feel pretty good, even though it took me most of the day, since Maria seemed to be trying out the “terrible 2s” attitude today.  Like standing on a chair repeatedly… ugh…

Although she was plenty good when we went to the park, and then when I agreed to her Elmo request this afternoon!

Weekend Wrap-Up

Last week just went by in a crazy fog. Chad was out of town, and I worked short days at work to do daycare drop-off and pick-up. I was lucky and Maria was an excellent sleeper every night, and went down early, so I could get more work done in the evening.

Friday, I didn’t work, since she had her 15 month wellness appointment. It went very well! The doctor says she seems very happy and healthy. Her 15 month stats: 34″ tall (off the charts – height of an average 24 month old) and 25# 2oz. (80th percentile).  She also had a couple shots, which weren’t fun for either of us. I think it’s worse as she gets older, because she is more aware of who and what is happening. 😦

Friday night, Chad surprised us and caught the early flight home. He arrived right as I was reading stories to Maria, so she ended up staying up a little later.

Saturday, I barely remember what we did. A lot of cleaning, I know that. We also checked out a park in Prior Lake that Chad discovered on a motorcycle ride a couple weeks ago.  Maria did not nap well and did not go down well. She really fought it. And I went in several times, but she did not want to rock. We finally soothed her with some pacifiers. One in her mouth (the Nuk brand), and 1 in each hand. The next day, she woke up congested, but was still liking the Nuk.  (She hasn’t taken a pacifier much since she found her thumb over a year ago!)

Sunday, Maria and I got up early (she woke up extremely congested) and went to Target and let Chad sleep in.  Chad’s parents came over to get some Maria time. We had steaks, chicken, coleslaw, corn on the cob, and homemade ice cream with berries. Yum! Again Maria did not go down well, and only had 2 short naps of which the 2nd one she woke up crying. Something was going on, she was not feeling well.

Today, Maria slept until 8, which was pretty good. We had waffles for breakfast. She played for a little while, but then went down at 9:30 for a nap.  I went out to run some errands and was surprised when I got home at noon that she was still asleep! She was down for probably about 3 hours total.  Not bad! We headed to the park with the wading stream this afternoon, and then she went down for another nap after. I woke her up at 5, so we didn’t completely blow her bedtime.  Hopefully these successful naps mean she’s on the upswing from whatever was bugging her this weekend!

That’s it. Long, I know.


Weekend

We had a great weekend. On Friday, Maria and I stayed home. She had her 15 month portraits in the morning. They went well, and we got some cute poses that capture her 15-month personality!

We also went for a walk in the afternoon. We checked out a garage sale and got some puzzles. Also met the people holding the garage sale who have a little girl just 6 months older than Maria and they only live a block over. So hopefully we will see them again soon!

We also went to the park! One of Maria’s favorite places!

Yesterday (Saturday) Grandma and Grandpa came over in the afternoon. That was very fun too! Grandma took Maria for a walk, and Maria got a chance to show off lots for G&G, including dancing, talking, and kicking her ball!

Today, we played in the backyard and visited with the neighbors. Our neighbor Nancy suggested we check out the Heart of the City which has a wading area sometime. Well we came home and got Daddy and our swimsuits, and went right away! It was a lot of fun, and we will definitely be going back! The water is treated, so it’s safe to swim in and there were lots of other kids. Much easier for a quick swim rather than setting up our pool in the back!  The best part was finishing up at the ice cream shop right across the street!